Man. 78, seduced and abandoned by major medical center in Hackensack

By VICTOR E. SASSON

It was a big promise: If I checked in at the medical center in Hackensack, a world class team of doctors and surgeons would determine whether it was safe enough to open my heart and  replace both of my infected and damaged valves.

My son brought me to the hospital a couple days before my birthday on November 4. but I didn't leave until many days later.

l was confined to the same stretcher, and doctors and nurses would stop by and say a few words.

Time passed, time stretched on and I am not sure which one of the surgeons took me aside said he had decided any surgery at this time was too risky.

Now, I was back on the stretcher, and doctors stooped by less frequently.

Yes, I felt seduced and abandoned.

One of my valves had been replaced at Englewood Hospital in 2011.

I was discharged on Nov. 15.

Bergen prosecutor says an SUV driver ran a stop sign in Hackensack on July 29 and killed one of his assistants on a motorcycle

FATAL CRASH: A photo of Assistant Bergen County Prosecutor Avon Morgan of Ridgewood and the scene of his fatal accident in Hackensack appeared online as part of Daily Voice coverage.

Death of Avon Morgan 'remains

an open police investigation'

By VICTOR E. SASSON

EDITOR

HACKENSACK, N.J. -- News reports of the death of Avon Morgan, 38, contained few details about the July 29 collision of an SUV and the motorcycle ridden by the Assistant Bergen County prosecutor.

For example, the lead paragraph on NorthJersey.com said "the law enforcement community is mourning the loss" of Morgan, "who was remembered as a 'class act' who was always smiling."

Now, Bergen County Prosecutor Mark Musella is blaming the SUV driver in Morgan's death:

Answering The Sasson Report's request under the Open Public Records Act for his office's completed investigation, the prosecutor said in his response:

"Your request pertains to a recent motor vehicle accident in which a motorcyclist [Morgan] was struck and killed by a vehicle that disregarded or failed to yield to a stop sign.

"The matter remains an open police investigation at this time," Musella said.

SUV DRIVER EXTRICATED: In photos that appeared on NorthJersey.com, above and below, investigators examine a Suzuki GSX motorcycle and a Toyota RAV4 after a collision on Essex Street and Railroad Avenue South in Hackensack on the afternoon of July 29. The time of the fatal accident was said to be 3:47 p.m.

SUV driver identified

The driver of the Toyota RAV 4 who allegedly "disregarded or failed to yield to a stop sign" was identified by Hackensack police as Juan DeJesus, 59, of Hackensack.

DeJesus had to be extricated from his vehicle. 

The SUV driver was treated at Hackensack University Medical Center and released after detectives from the Bergen County Prosecutor's Office executed a search warrant and obtained two vials of his blood, which were taken to Hackensack police headquarters.

DeJesus told police he was making a left turn from Railroad Avenue South onto Essex Street, but the police report ends in mid-sentence.

Deirdre J. Bowe is yet another victim of Bergen County officials' criminal refusal to improve pedestrian safety in Hackensack

The large SUV that struck and fatally injured Deirdre Bowe, 64, stopped approximately here on Polifly Road and Mary Street in Hackensack, as shown in the Hackensack police report filed on July 10, 2022, by Police Officer Panagiotis Seretis, below.

 

By VICTOR E. SASSON

EDITOR

HACKENSACK, N.J. -- Who was Deirdre Janet Bowe?

The 64-year-old woman was struck by a Cadillac Escalade as she crossed a darkened Polifly Road at Mary Street in Hackensack at about 8:55 p.m. on July 10, 2022, and died of her injuries in a hospital.

Bowe is the second woman killed crossing Polifly Road, a busy 4-lane street supposedly maintained by Bergen County that has a crosswalk at only one intersection between Essex Street and Route 80 -- a distance of 11 blocks -- and inadequate lighting.

Hackensack officials' repeated calls for better street lighting and crosswalks at every intersection have fallen on deaf ears at the Bergen County Administration building in Hackensack.

Even signs or flashing lights warning drivers of pedestrians wouldn't be out of place given a popular CVS Pharmacy, all of the apartment buildings lining both sides of Polifly Road, and drivers who often exceed the speed limit.

2021 fatality

On March 4, 2021, Lillian J. Holmes, 81, of Hackensack died after she was knocked down by a hit-run driver and struck by a second driver as she crossed a darkened Polifly Road, between Sutton and Marvin avenues, several blocks away from the latest fatality.

She was going to pick up a prescription at the CVS Pharmacy, family members said.

The case remains open at the Bergen County prosecutor's Fatal Accident Investigation Unit, which has been unable to locate the vehicle that struck her or identify the driver who fled.

Deirdre Janet Bowe

Bowe's first name was misspelled in the Hackensack police report, and she wasn't identified in the Daily Voice story about her death on July 11, 2022.

The headline: "Pedestrian, 64, Struck, Killed On Treacherous Stretch of Road in Hackensack." 

"Lost too soon" said an online obituary in The Record and Herald News on July 15, 2022, listing as survivors her mother, Hope; her sister, Daphne Bowe-Kricheff; and three children, Ashton, Christopher and Cordelia Bowe-Rivera.

There is no information on where she lived. The obituary suggested donations to AdvanceHousing.org.

What driver said

The driver, Abraham Hazem, 56, of Hackensack told police "he was traveling southbound on Polifly Road," near Mary Street, and "the pedestrian ran across the roadway and that he was unable to avoid the collision."

Hazem was driving a black Cadillac Escalade registered in New York State with "SYDNEYS" on the license plates.

The police officer who wrote the report noted:

 "The pedestrian was not crossing at a marked crosswalk" and the "nearest crosswalk was located north of the location...200 feet away."

"Also the location has very little overhead lighting making the area dark," the officer wrote.

There are apartments and homes on both sides of the street near the spot where Bowe was killed, a couple of blocks from Route 80.

The driver was released at the scene, the police report noted.

What state law says

The officer who wrote the report mentioned the pedestrian wasn't using a marked crosswalk, but state law says:

"Pedestrians have the right-of-way at all intersections, including intersections with no crosswalk markings ('unmarked crosswalks').

"A motorist is required to yield the right-of-way to a pedestrian crossing the roadway within an unmarked crosswalk at an intersection."

"From 2010 to 2020, 14 pedestrians were killed in Hackensack, records show," NorthJersey.com has reported.

READ: Crosswalk without warning sign proved deadly

We flew first class to Nashville on Delta, but the 'food' wasn't music to our ears

THE VIEW FROM FIRST CLASS: I decided to pay more than $1,000 each for my wife and I to fly roundtrip to Nashville, the country music capital, to celebrate her birthday and our 20th wedding anniversary. Amid lingering fears of the coronavirus, I welcomed our two roomy seats and our own bin for carry on luggage, below.

 

Are we more susceptible to being overcharged as we get older?

 

Editor's note: I've added more photos of the great food we ate in Nashville during our visit, as well as listed some of the great country music stars we heard live.

By VICTOR E. SASSON

EDITOR

HACKENSACK, N.J. -- Our last real vacation was a trip to New Orleans in April 2019 so I decided to splurge on the airfare to Nashville for a weeklong stay last month.

First-class seats on Delta were a little over $1,000 each, but I welcomed the prospect of ordering a couple of margaritas and a nice salad or an Impossible Burger with a side of great fries.

After all, we were celebrating my wife's birthday and our 20th wedding anniversary even as the lingering coronavirus still made us worried about being in crowds.

So, I booked two first-class tickets online for our flights from Newark to Atlanta and a change of planes to Nashville's international airport.

But it turns out we were ripped off by Delta.

Margaritas and chips

Tickets in steerage cost about $300 each or less for the same flights.

So, for an extra $700 0r so, I got a couple of margaritas after we took off, and when I asked what food was being served, the cabin attendant showed me a basket with small bags of mini graham crackers,  pistachio nuts and potato chips!

ON THE WAY HOME: I made sure to eat a good lunch at the Nashville airport before we left for home via Atlanta last Sunday -- a Mushroom Toast with a crisp Romaine lettuce salad and shaved cheese, and a cold beer to wash it down.

Problems with Delta

This was the first time -- and likely the last time -- I used Delta Airlines, and as I was booking the trip I was offered $400 off our airfare, if I applied for a Delta-branded American Express credit card.

I filled out the application, but by the end of the purchase, I wasn't approved, and I couldn't even charge our air fares to PayPal for some reason.

So, I had to charge the full $2,000+ to another credit card, losing the $400 discount. The next day, I got an email the American Express card was approved.

When the card arrived in the mail a week later, I called Delta and asked the airline to reverse the charges and put them on the Amex card so I could get the $400 discount.

Delta refused to do so.

$2,000 return ticket

Our flight home last Sunday was scheduled to leave Nashville around 2:30 in the afternoon, and when I called Delta to see if we could get on an earlier flight, I was told yes, but I would have to pay another $1,000 each -- the fares went up, I was told.

I can't make this up. Delta's greed knows no bound.

Bring lots of money

Nashville is booming. And it's expensive for tourists, especially if you want to enjoy fine dining and see the big country music stars.

We attended three major concerts and paid about $200 each for seats each time, plus service fees totaling $100 or so.

I bought all of our tickets on my smart phone, a difficult process for a senior like me. I wonder now if I couldn't have called the venues directly and bought my tickets over the phone, eliminating the "service fees."

The biggest disappointment was the Grand Ole Opry -- "the show that made country music famous" -- where promotional material holds out the promise of you seeing the biggest country stars among up and comers and a house band.

Last Saturday night, from our $200 seats, we saw a lot of performers in their 70s and bands we never heard of, even a really funny comedian, but no stars like Darius Rucker, who was shown on the cover of the program.

Big country stars

We did see and hear Darius Rucker at a fund-raiser on Aug. 23, 2022, for the bus drivers and other support staff for tours of big stars like Rucker, as well as performances by the Brothers Osborne, Scotty McCreery and Brad Paisley.

At an award show, the Academy of Country Music Honors, on Aug. 24, 2022, we loved a song-and-dance number by Kelsea Ballerini. 

Nashville also boasts the country's only National Museum of African American Music, where you can see videos and listen to bands and singers. 

UNOBSTRUCTED VIEW? StubHub, an online ticket agency, promised we'd have an "unobstructed view" of the stage from our seats at the Academy of Country Music Honors, an award show with performances by Kelsea Ballerini and others. We paid a total of $422 with fees. 

AWARDS: Singers Miranda Lambert, above, and Shania Twain were among the country stars receiving awards at the show in the historic Ryman Auditorium, where the hard, wooden church pew seating was torture.

FROM FINE DINING TO FOOD HALL: We ordered and shared a comforting side dish of Chipotle Sweet Potatoes ($13), above, at Marsh House, a fine-dining seafood restaurant in the Thompson Hotel. The neighborhood is called The Gultch. Our entrees were sea scallops ($42) and red fish ($38), below.

MARGARITAVILLE HOTEL: In the hotel's JWB Grill, I enjoyed Local Trout served over garlic spinach and red chilies ($30), and Charred Broccolini ($8), below.

WORTH THE DETOUR: For lunch, I loved the Broccoli Melt ($14), above, at Cafe Roze in East Nashville, a neighborhood across the Cumberland River. We took a Lyft there and back. Unfortunately, the noise level was uncomfortably high.

BREWED IN NASHVILLE: This bottle of porter ($6), a dark beer, was so good I ordered a second to wash down my sandwich. But I couldn't find another restaurant that served it, even though it is brewed in Nashville.

BIG BREAKFASTS: If you're a fan of big breakfasts, Kitchen Notes in the Omni Nashville Hotel is the place that serves them. My Yogurt Parfait, above, was $9. Coffee and orange juice are $6 each.

MUSIC OMELET: My wife's Music City Omelet ($18) was stuffed with ham, roasted peppers, onion and cheddar cheese and served with house potatoes.

COMPLIMENTARY BISCUITS: Our breakfasts came with these addictive biscuits, served with honey, butter and jam.

ASSEMBLY FOOD HALL: Mushroom Tacos at Chilangos Tacos in the Assembly Food hall downtown, above, were $10.50.

DESANO PIZZA: A 9-inch Verdura Pizza in the food hall was $13.75.

WEBB PIERCE'S CADILLAC: At the Country Music Hall of Fame and Museum in Nashville, you can see a Cadillac convertible festooned with pistols, a saddle and more that belonged to Webb Pierce, above and below. Pierce had more No. 1 hits in the 1950s than any other artist.

Crossing street, woman, 64, is latest victim of dangerous stretch of Hackensack road

ANOTHER PEDESTRIAN DEATH: Hackensack police closed Polifly Road, above and below, on Sunday night to investigate after a woman, 64, was struck by an SUV as she tried to cross the street. She died at the hospital.

  

By VICTOR E. SASSON

EDITOR

HACKENSACK -- The victim -- a 64 year-old woman -- was struck by a Cadillac Escalade on Polifly Road, near Mary Street and Route 80, around 8:30 p.m. Sunday night, police said.

She was later pronounced dead at Hackensack University Medical Center, police said.

The driver, 65, also of Hackensack, remained on the scene, but no summonses were immediately issued.

Lillian J. Holmes

On March 4, 2021, Lillian J. Holmes, 81, died after she was knocked down by a hit-run driver and struck by a second vehicle, which stayed on the scene, as she crossed to the CVS on Polifly Road -- designated as a county street.

There are no crosswalks or warning signs for pedestrians or drivers along a 6-block stretch of the 4-lane Polifly Road between Essex and Lodi streets, and at night the street is dark from the lack of lighting.

No changes were made by Bergen County or PSE&G after Holmes death, which the county Prosecutor's office says remains unsolved.

Public information

Hackensack police refused to release any information to me, a former reporter at The Record of Hackensack and author of The Sasson Report.

A police supervisor referred me to the Daily Voice, which didn't identify the woman who was killed.

Woman once called 'Napalm Girl' says she endorses showing photos of children killed by 18-year-old gunman in Uvalde, Texas

HELPS CHILDREN: Kim Phuc Phan Ti, shown in a New York Times photo at her home in Canada, is founder of Kim Foundation International, which provides aid to child victims of war. 

By VICTOR E. SASSON

EDITOR

HACKENSACK, N.J. -- After mass shootings at a Buffalo, N.Y., supermarket and at an elementary school in Texas, I urged news media like CNN and The New York Times to obtain crime scene photos of the victims to confront officials who refuse to curb gun sales.

Now, a victim of war sees a need for the same kind of confrontation with members of Congress who say no action in necessary.

In a guest essay in The Times' Opinion section, Kim Phuc Phan Ti -- the 9-year-old who became known as "Napalm Girl" after her clothes were stripped off in an attack -- says:

"I know what it is like to have your village bombed, your home devastated, to see family members die and bodies of innocent civilians lying in the street. These are the horrors of war from Vietnam memorialized in countless photographs and newsreels. Sadly, they are also the images of wars everywhere, of precious human lives being damaged and destroyed today in Ukraine.

"They are, in a different way, also the horrific images coming from school shootings. We may not see the bodies, as we do with foreign wars, but these attacks are the domestic equivalent of war. The thought of sharing the images of the carnage, especially of children, may seem unbearable — but we should confront them. It is easier to hide from the realities of war if we don’t see the consequences.

"I cannot speak for the families in Uvalde, Texas, but I think that showing the world what the aftermath of a gun rampage truly looks like can deliver the awful reality. We must face this violence head-on, and the first step is to look at it."

Imagine the horror of 19 schoolchildren and 2 teachers herded together into a classroom before they are slaughtered by a teen with a weapon that tore them apart

A woman leaving the Civic Center in Uvalde, Texas, reflects the grief we all feel after a deranged teenager killed 19 schoolchildren and 2 teachers in the small city near the Texas-Mexican border on Tuesday.

The news media must confront the gun lobby's bought and sold reps in the U.S. Congress

VICTOR E. SASSON

EDITOR

HACKENSACK, N.J. -- How big is CNN, the global news gathering organization? 

Big enough to obtain photos of the horrific slaughter inside a single classroom in Texas where 19 schoolchildren and 2 teachers were cut apart by bullets from an assault rifle on Tuesday?

Unlikely. When have you ever seen photos like that? 

How about The New York Times? 

Imagine if reporters from CNN or The Times could use those photos to confront public officials like the governor of Texas, Sen. Ted Cruz and all others in the U.S. Congress who oppose any reform in background checks and other measures that could stop such tragedies.

"Is this what you favor? Is this carnage acceptable in return for the blood money you take from the gun lobby?"

Instead, those officials get treated with kid gloves, and are allowed to perpetuate the myth that the federal government wants to "take away our guns."

And the news media simply repeat those lies.